Wednesday, February 20, 2013

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rlyni


I'm planning my friends wedding and her cousin is a priest who they'd like to have conduct the vows.

They want a catholic wedding, one honored by the church, but they want to have a outdoor wedding as well. As Catholic's are we allowed to be wed outside the church or does it need to be in a church in order to have your wedding blessed by the church?



Answer
In order for it to be a Catholic wedding and seen as a marriage by the Catholic church, you must be married in a Catholic church. Because of the strong stance the Catholic church has on weddings, your friend's cousin will not be able to perform the ceremony or even appear there as a priest unless it is in a church.

I had some very dear friends of mine be excommunicated for "living in sin" because their marriage wasn't performed in a church. They had it in a nondenominational chapel of a location that meant a great deal to them. It didn't make any difference to the church. They were still considered to not be married.

Your friend needs to decide what is more important, an outdoor wedding, or a Catholic wedding.

Good luck.

How did your wedding cake taste on your first anniversary?




Ms. X


For those who saved some wedding cake for your first anniversary, how did it taste? Freezer burn? So awful you had to throw it away? Almost as good as at the wedding? Just as good as at the wedding?

My husband and I decided not to save any as my husband didn't like the idea of eating year-old cake. And that didn't sound very appealing to me either.



Answer
ACK!!!!!!!!

With my first wedding/marriage I unwrapped the cake and took one whiff of freezer burn..and trashed it lol.

With my second wedding/marriage...well I am a retired professional baker and our cake was a carrot cake with cream cheese icing- a fav of ours and ALL our guests....I had the entire cake served.....not a piece was left.

Then for our anniversaries I make a small replica of our original cake...so fresh and tasty...and labor of love on my part.

Cake rarely makes it past 4-6 months in the freezer and many icings/fillings can NOT be frozen without a disastrous result..one year? No thank you. As a former baker I am very picky....taste is all important to me, along with presentation.

BTW, grocery stores like Walmart, Kroger's, etc who have bakeries and offer sheet cakes, etc do NOT bake their own cake or make their own icings...they come in frozen and are stored in their deep freezer until needed, then thawed and assembled...I did a stint in such a bakery ( I made their scratch bread, donuts, bagels,rolls, etc but the cake and some icings were frozen and shipped in) we NEVER kept or used cake that had been in the freezer longer than 6 months.

What do you call a wedding where a lot of people get married?




Jordi R


What is a wedding called where many people get married at the same time and it is give by the community? Is it a community wedding?


Answer
A diarhea wedding.

How does a renewal vow wedding or a second wedding suppose to go?




JaneDoe


we never had a wedding, just the court house. My husband says since we're already married we can't have a wedding. I disagree, because we have the marriage, but never had a wedding or a honeymoon. How should the ceremony go. Can we still get married in catholic church?


Answer
You can still have a wedding its renewing the vows. My hubby and I got married in vegas and everything for something quick and fun. Now almost 2 years later we are going to have our renewing of the vows which to everyone whom did not come to our little wedding (which is the whole family) will get to be apart of it no matter what. You can choose to renew your vows anywhere and can change them how you seem fit. We are writing our own vows and everything and are going to have fun with this wedding and actually have a honeymoon. (didnt have one either even though we were in vegas, plus he had to leave for iraq)

In all just plan your renewing just like you would have your real wedding and remember to have fun.

ps dont listen to the person above me, you dont have to move one with your life, the furture is there for a reason, so make the most of it.



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