Friday, January 18, 2013

How important is a wedding day?

Q. Every girl dreams of having the perfect wedding day once she finds her prince. Well iv found my king! We both want a nice wedding, out doors, ice sculptures, catered etc. It will be sorta costly so we won't get a honeymoon.

How important is it to having a nice wedding? I dont want to go to the courthouse, and have a wedding with things just thrown together. Iv had too many friends to do that and I want our day to be *special*

I understand marriage is what's important but shouldn't the wedding day be just as important. It is after all a celebration of two lives becoming one.

A. Subjective. What I consider to be "nice" wouldn't be your cup of tea. For instance, you want ice sculptures? I consider them a huge waste of money. What about that makes the day any nicer than the extra $2000 you saved by NOT having them? It's shaped frozen water...whoopi.

Th wedding day should reflect the couples taste and I do agree with you that it is two lives becoming one, but again, my wedding may sound completely po-dunk to you but I considered it VERY nice. All that mattered was that my husband and I were there. It was a fun day with our families.

I don't consider the wedding DAY of the utmost importance. Really, anyone can put on fancy clothes and have a fancy party and invite whomever they choose. All that REALLY matters is your "I Do's" to each other.

Of course you want your day memorable, but I didn't want to spend my day and all the days leading up to it stressing that every single detail was perfect and that everything was going to go right. A wedding is nice, but a happy marriage is nicer.

How can I surprise my fiance on our wedding day?
Q. He's been so lovely through the planning stage so I wanted to give him a lovely surprise on our wedding day.

I've rented his dream car for the day.


What else could I do?

A. I understand your motivation to do something sweet for your husband to be. But I think you might be setting yourself up for a bunch of stress by trying to surprise him on the wedding day. You are going to have a lot on your mind and a lot to take care of. Donât add to the pile. The car is nice, so leave it at that. Consider doing something special on your honeymoon (candle lit bubble-bath, hot oil massage, concert tickets, whatever heâs into). That way you can look forward to the surprise, but not compound the anxiety with your wedding day!

Is rain on your wedding day good or bad luck?
Q. My sister's wedding day was the only day that rained for the whole week and it didn't even ran for the next few days after. Anyway I could've sworn rain was good luck, but today my boss said it was really horrible bad luck. Which is it?

A. It's considered good luck for it to rain on a wedding day. There's a little rhyme for it, but I can't quite remember what it is. I'll look for it and get back to you.

ADDED: Sorry, I couldn't find the rhyme, but I do know that your boss is mistaken. Rain on a wedding day is very good luck.

Is rain on your wedding day good or bad luck?
Q. My sister's wedding day was the only day that rained for the whole week and it didn't even ran for the next few days after. Anyway I could've sworn rain was good luck, but today my boss said it was really horrible bad luck. Which is it?

A. Hi. It's supposed to be good luck, but who knows where this "old wives tale" originated from.

I'm sure way back sometime it rained on someone's wedding, and to make the bride and groom feel better, someone said that is was "good luck." I have no idea.

In any case, neither good nor bad weather on your wedding day can predict how your marriage is going to be!



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